My girlfriend is mad at me

RoadsarePoison · Trick Member Joined: 24 May 2005 Location: Albany

She's the one who got me into playing DDR (she's been playing a couple years), then I got really into it and got better than her after 4-5 months and now she gets really mad whenever I mention the game and I'm not allowed to watch when she plays and I certainly can't let her watch when I play b/c I can pass a bunch of songs that she thinks I can't pass and that would just make things worse. And this sucks b/c we used to play versus but now we can't even play at the same time and I can't tell her about any accomplishments b/c then she'll just get mad. I was wondering if this has happened to anyone else?
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Legend Of Nilo · Trick Member Joined: 15 Dec 2004

Mad over a game? Give her roses and your problems are solved.

seinman · Basic Member Joined: 02 May 2005

If she gets pissed off over a video game, get rid of the doggy. Don't sweat the small stuff, that's my motto.

Legend Of Nilo · Trick Member Joined: 15 Dec 2004

by the way how old is your gf? If she's young then I can understand why she's mad over a game.

xpguardian · Trick Member Joined: 11 Mar 2005

You should talk to her and try to work it out with her but if that doesnt work just dump her. If she gets mad at you over a video game then you dont need to be dating her anyway.

blak puls fyre · Trick Member Joined: 28 Sep 2004 Location: Ann Arbor, MI

Why is she mad, because you got better thn her in a shorter amount of time.
you should ask why she's so pissed about it and she is still b****ing after that, leave her

[Team Jiketsu] apd · Trick Member Joined: 26 May 2003 Location: Meriden, CT

Dump those muffins.
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Icculus · Trick Member Joined: 11 Jun 2003 Location: Somerset, MA

...I must say that is a pretty immature thing. If your girlfriend gets that upset over something that simple then I think you guys suffer from a lot of insecurity. Honestly, I think that you probably chose the wrong person. Well, if you are like 13 or something then that is expected. Over time, you learn that if you're going out with someone THAT immature then something is definitely wrong.

BraveLittleToaster · Trick Member Joined: 19 Nov 2004

Pretend to be worse than her. If she is really angry, because you are better than her, than maybe she really isnt a good girlfriend.

Danl · Trick Member Joined: 20 Sep 2004 Location: Northfield, MN

hah. actually, i've had the same problem with my ex. only i got her into DDR. then when she was getting good, we were about equal, till i pulled away and got a ton better than she was. then she just got pissy.
i did mention how she's my ex-girlfriend? yeah. i dumped her. not just cuz of that, but she was kinda psycho. the DDR thing was part of that, though, so its most likely not a good situation if she gets that upset about DDR.
dump her like a sac of bad flour.
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Bolt-Edge · Trick Member Joined: 01 Sep 2004 Location: Mayfield, OH

Wow, your girlfriend is really....not....girlfriend...ish. I say just dump her if she is really that jealous. I think nobody should be put down just cause your better

If your really that into her, give her a hershey's
"OMG CHOCOLATE. I LOVE IT SO MUCH"

I hate girls like that. I have a girl i like who hates it when i even speak of DDR. I get made fun of and put down. So annoying
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Light_373 · Trick Member Joined: 11 Apr 2005 Location: Chicago

Thats not going to happen until i get a home version. But my girl also plays, but she is better than me. Ive been playing since january and she has since september.
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sexual taco · Trick Member Joined: 24 Jan 2002 Location: Union, NJ

wow... how childish of her (unless she still is a child, then its okay). i mean its just a game, nothing to get pissy all over. the same thing kind of happened to me. i got better than my boyfriend after we met, and he beat me up because of it. just kidding.

my suggestion is, slap her in the face and tell her to get over it or your leaving her ass, BIATCH!
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Da-Risin-Smoke · Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 5:26 pm Post subject:

Girls can be that way, some times like these they can be immature

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Don't let it get to you.

YEah, give her flowers, sure it's not going to be that easy.

Maybe she's jealous, maybe it's cuz you play a lot more she does.

- Da-RiSiN-sMoKe

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doubles · Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 6:41 pm Post subject:

maybe she's jealous b/c you spent more time playing a silly arrow game instead of being with her

Brandon DDR fan · Trick Member Joined: 09 Feb 2005 Location: Berryton,Kansas

Dude one of my friends is better than me and shes been playing a lot less because i have the game and shes better than me. If your better than here just tell here to practice she shouldnt even be mad maybe care but not get mad over it. Now that my friends better than me i got to practice a lot because i hate being at the bottom but it dosent piss me off.

Julie QQQ...? · Trick Member Joined: 07 Jun 2002 Location: Boston, MA

I've been in both sides of this situation before.

I've been the one who pissed people off because I've gotten good. They aren't so vocal about it, but I know the frustration and anger is there.

I've gotten pissed at one of my ex-boyfriends, who got better than me because he was playing a lot, not because he was playing a lot, but because he completely forgot I existed since he was so addicted to it.

Also, I've also been the immature girl who gets mad at my boyfriend for getting amazingly better really fast in the past. Believe it or not, girls can be just as competitive as guys and jerks about stuff that guys can be jerks about, too. Guys can be competitive enough to make something an obssession until they master something, and I know more casual female players who don't really care about scores and clearing stuff and whatnot. Still, a pang of jealousy can run through some girls (and gasp, even guys) when they see their signigicant other/any friend in general clear stuff and do well on stuff in a shorter period of time.

Ghettoman-DDR · Posted: Thu May 26, 2005 4:40 am Post subject:

It's kind of stupid for her to be spazzing about that you're better than her because you've been practicing and improving....

Its not like you have been ignoring her and been playing DDR all the time.

And why is she getting worked up over a silly game? Pretty damn stupid if you ask me.

Tell her to grow the F--k up and get over it... If she doesn't understand well then leave her.
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DDRGerbil · Trick Member Joined: 15 Apr 2005 Location: MN

This might be me being the mental sadist I am, but you should play versus or doubles with her (If you don't know how to play doubles with 2 people, you "E" life in my opinion) on a really hard song and depending on how she reacts to you totally pwning her/good/bad teamwork, give her a hug or dump her.

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AEaglePrep12491 · Trick Member Joined: 05 Apr 2005

no that has never happened to me.